JeanaSwindle520

One of the first and foremost things you can do to both feel better about yourself and raise your chances at getting your ex boyfriend to come running back to you is to not allow yourself the luxury of falling apart over this. The first part of this tip concerns your appearance...don't just maintain it, pump it up! New clothes, new hair, new smile, new waist...whatever you think you could improve about yourself, do it! Turn yourself into an absolute knockout!

This helps you a LOT in that it not only makes you feel great when you look in the mirror, but it'll also start getting you noticed by other guys and even your ex if he sees you. Guys giving you the eye or approaching you not only gives you a self-confidence boost and opens up different possible options from your ex (if you find yourself missing him less and less), but if you are still actively interested in your ex being in the male public eye is a great way for spurring on a little bit of that "hey, she's mine" jealousy!

Part two of not letting yourself fall apart is to avoid sitting around your apartment feeling sorry for yourself, and keep yourself pulled together socially as well as physically. Go out with friends to the local hotspots where people your age go to have a good time, and shove aside the "omg I miss him so much" feelings in favor of "I'm here...forget him, I'm going to have some fun!" -type feelings.

When you're looking great and staying social, appearing to have a wonderful time...something clicks in your ex's mind if he sees you this way. He starts to see you in a different light...especially if you had the standard common "drag-out" period after the breakup. Seeing you pull yourself together, stand up and move on (even if it only LOOKS that way, regardless of how you feel inside), he'll start to think he misjudged you when he dumped you. It's not always enough to make him come crawling back, but it usually gets you into his head.

The focus of this article is on how to get your ex's attention, but just as important is keeping from getting negative attention from him. To this end it's recommended to EVERYBODY who gets broken up with to just go along with it and cut off contact for a period of about a month. This gives the both of you time and space to get your heads straight and sort out how you really feel about one another...with the absence making the heart grow fonder. Learning some love making tips can really help as well.